Q. Hi there. I'm a 23 year old Scorpio who desperately desires love and companionship, but, simultaneously, desires to find solace in solitude. My life will change a great deal soon, as I am graduating from school, which means that I need to start planning for my future. If I'm dating someone, will he hinder or help me on my journey? What's a boy to do? Cheers! Confused in San Diego

A. If forced to describe Scorpio in one word, it would be Passion. You feel passionately, be it love or hate, for family, friends, career, and your distinctive place in the Universe. That distinctive place seeks celebration and silence. Your new love is a great cheerleader! His sunny disposition can help, not hinder you while planning something as serious as your future. A word of warning-this is a time where the majority of personal energy must remain on your plans. If you lose boundaries, you'll lose balance. Be Happy, honey!

Q. I'm a thirty something entrepreneur. I have an MBA in Business and one already successful Internet endeavor. I was recently approached by another Internet Company to form a merger. Will the merger be successful? Money and power! In Minnesota

A. Honey, you are a natural Midas! Touch it and it turns gold. Your life hasn't been without its bumps and truly hard work, but that inner sense you always listen to, tells you true! Why are you writing me? You know this answer. Sometimes when we let go of the reigns, someone else will happily grab and steer for us. Do not merge - continual success requires squashing this urge!

Q. I just finished a two-year relationship and really fear finding myself in that kind of relationship prison again. My old boyfriend ignored and neglected me. I'm out on the market again and have been having fun just dating with no strings attached. I finally met someone I really like. We have been dating about three weeks. The other night he called and said he had some free time and wanted to get together. I haven't heard from him since. I'm afraid the same thing is happening all over again this time with a different guy. Hurting in Ohio

A. Oh sweetie, let me quell your fears. This guy is just as scared as you are; he is really feeling something for you-and it's got his head spinning. Love, even Like, never shows up at the right time. It sneaks in when we're teetering off-guard. You both met at a time when each was choosing no string flings. O.K! It's a New World where every couple can choose their own relationship rules. When he calls…and he will…openly tell him that you want and need the freedoms he is craving. Be friends, be lovers, but most of all, be honest!